Even though breastfeeding is a natural continuation of pregnancy and birth, mothers still worry about producing enough milk. An understanding of how milk production works can help mothers avoid problems and know when to seek help.
From mid-pregnancy a woman’s breasts produce a concentrated, antibody-rich milk called colostrum. Quantities are small to suit a baby’s tiny stomach. A few days after birth, the breasts begin to produce large amounts of “mature” milk. Most mothers experience engorgement at this point, but if the baby has nursed well from birth it may be less noticeable.
How Supply and Demand Works During Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding is a matter of supply and demand. The more the baby eats, the more milk will be produced. You can compare it to hosting a crowd of guests. If you have too much lasagna left over, you will make a smaller amount next time. But if your guests finish everything and look around for more, you’ll cook more for their next visit.
Lactating breasts work in the same way. A protein in the milk called Feedback Inhibitor of Lactation (FIL) regulates the milk. When a large quantity of milk leads to FIL accumulating in the breasts, production slows. Shortened or scheduled feedings, a baby who is not transferring enough milk, and supplementing with formula can all lead to lower supply. The “leftover” milk stays in the breast and the increase in FIL limits production.
If the baby is nursing well and drawing milk efficiently from the breasts, the body will make enough milk. Frequent nursing (or pumping) from the “empty” breast increases supply, to let the body know that a hungry baby needs more food—just like guests who scrape the bottom of the serving bowl. Unlike the bowl, though, breasts are never truly empty, and the baby is getting milk whenever he nurses.
With milk supply, the bottom line is not how much the mother has but how much the baby is getting. A mother’s breasts can be dripping with milk but none gets into the baby because of a sucking problem. If the problem isn’t fixed the mother’s milk supply will gradually drop off. And sometimes a mother mistakenly believes she doesn’t have enough because her breasts feel soft or the baby nurses frequently. Yet milk is being produced constantly, quantities are subtly readjusting, and breasts may feel fuller or emptier depending on the time of day.
Tips for Making Enough Milk for Your Baby
The most common reason for “not enough milk” is a baby who does not nurse often enough or long enough, or does not nurse effectively.
Tips for keeping the milk flowing:
Nurse immediately after birth and keep baby nearby for feedings during the hospital stay (rooming in).
Avoid formula supplements, which interfere with milk supply and can impact the baby’s health.
Let the baby determine when to begin and end a feeding, watching the baby and not the clock. Babies become more flexible as they grow, but you can continue to trust them to let you know when they are hungry. A normal time frame for a newborn feeding is ten to thirty minutes on each side.
Offer both breasts at each feeding in the early weeks. Supply for each breast is determined separately.
Let baby finish the first side—he is done when he lets go, sucks infrequently, or falls asleep. Cutting baby off in the middle of a feed is like asking him to skip dessert, since milk from the end of the feed is higher in calories. And we don’t put babies on diets. Don’t worry if he doesn’t want the other breast every time.
Nurse at least 8-12 times a day in the early weeks, including at night.
Consult an expert if breastfeeding hurts or the baby is not interested in nursing. Pain may be related to poor latch that can affect supply.
If there is a question about whether the baby is getting enough milk, have the baby seen by a medical professional.
Avoid pacifiers, as they can mask signs of hunger.
Babies should return to birth weight by one to two weeks and continue to gain an average of 170 grams a week for three to four months, but for some babies lower weight gain is normal.
Other signs of plentiful milk are 6-8 cloth or 5-6 disposable wet diapers and 2-3 soft bowel movements a day, and an active, alert baby who seems satisfied after feedings (although many newborns prefer being held all the time).
While mothers need to care for themselves and listen to their bodies, insufficient milk is not caused by fatigue (what mother isn’t tired?), a poor diet, or not drinking enough except in extreme cases.
Medical Reasons for Lack of Milk
Some medical reasons for poor milk supply or low weight gain include:
Over- or underactive thyroid. Women on thyroid medication prior to birth may need their dosage adjusted.
A history of breast surgery, or underdeveloped breasts that did not expand during pregnancy and after birth.
PCOS, although this is controversial. It may also cause over-supply.
Medications including the combination birth-control pill.
Retained placenta.
Over-supply, or too much milk. Ironically, mismanagement of over-supply can lead to poor weight gain in some babies.
Hormonal issues.
Health issues in the baby, such as low muscle tone or tongue-tie. The baby’s tongue needs to reach several centimeters behind the nipple to draw out milk effectively.
Many mothers worry unnecessarily about their milk supply. But as long as baby is nursing on cue and growing and developing normally, fussiness, frequent nursing or night-waking is probably not connected to lack of milk.
Medical disclaimer: This page is for educational and informational purposes only and may not be construed as medical advice.
Monday, October 8, 2012
Zarbee's all-natural children's cough syrup Review
One of the things that I found frustrating with young toddlers is that if they caught a cold , there was pretty much nothing over the counter that you can give to them. You will have to take them to the doctor and get a prescription. My Luvbug caught a terrible summer cold and this outspoken mama had enough. I didn't feel like taking him to the pediatrician office and get exposed to more germs, I wanted to go to the pharmacy and just pick up something over the counter and be done with it. Then one of my mommy friends told me about this all natural cough syrup that is safe for babies 12 months and older. I was like really??? I have never heard of this product before and I wanted to try it. So off to Walgreens to grab a bottle. This cough syrup is made from several dark honeys. After 24 hours of taking one teaspoon every four hours I noticed a big difference. My little one wasn't drowsy , he could go about his day playing with his toys and his cough was almost gone. He had absolutely no side effects at all from this. It was such a relief not hear my Luvbug coughing in his sleep. This product will now be a necessity in my medicine cabinet especially with cold and flue season coming up. I will be buying all their products from now on.
*Disclaimer* this review is my own personal opinion , I was not paid by the company to review this product.
Sunday, August 19, 2012
iPad the best learning tool to give your child
It amazes me how the times have changed, when I was growing up the best educational thing that you could have in your house was a speak and spell, then it was a set of encyclopedias, then it was the home computer. I remember when windows 95 came out and we had got Compton's interactive encyclopedia. School work was super easy for me after that. Then came the Internet and no longer having to go to the library because I had information right at my fingertips. Well times they are a changing (boy I sound like my grandmother)
Now it seems that if you want your child to excel in school then it is imperative that you purchase an iPad. I would even go as far as saying purchase one for your toddler/ preschooler or kindergarten . I know what you are thinking, why would I buy such an expensive machine to hand over? Well first of all, you can buy a heavy duty case to protect your investment and sure $499 for your basic 16gb iPad does seem like a lot of money but it is actually cheaper to buy an iPad versus, Leappad , Vtech learning systems, etc.
When you look at it like this: you spend about $99 for a leapfrog Leappad . Then you have to spend like at least $15 for additional cartridges of games and books. Same with the tag reader system and the same with the Vtech systems as well. Now the pros for these systems are that they are toddler / preschool friendly meaning they can handle being drop and bump around. But the cons is that your child can easily out grow them. With the iPad, it's simple , purchase the smallest one on the market and for $499 that will be the iPad 16GB. Or you may find one even cheaper buying used. Once you have your iPad, I suggest putting a tough case on it to protect it from being dropped . I have two cases actually. The fisher price appitivity case , which hides the home button so my love bug can't exit out of apps. And it comes with a shield over the screen to protect from wetness. And an otterbox case.
Okay , the apple store has tons of educational apps, most of which are free. Then the ones you have to pay for run anywhere from $.99 -6.99 (the App store Runs sales All the time And alot of apps let you try before you buy) And the iPad grows with your kids. One of my favorite apps are the ocean house media ones. Their interactive books run anywhere from $1.99-699. (they do have two bundles to where you can get like 5 books for $11.99) And the Dr Suess books always goes on sale 50% off during his birthday for one or two weeks; sorry can't remember which. But anyway , these books teach your kids to read the same way as the leapfrog tag system only you didn't pay $15 for one book. Another reason why I love these books is because they have several wonderful functions. There is an auto play for my luvbug to listen to his favorite story. I can read him the story and turn the pages myself just like a real book, and the best part that makes it just like the tag system is that you can touch each word and it tells you what the word is. Not to mention if my luvbug touches anywhere on the screen , it automatically tells him what the picture is. Now the iPad can do more then just teach your preschooler or toddler how to read but with an iPad you won't have to purchase the your baby can read system because the apple store is full of flash cards that are animated and most of them are free while the rest are just $.99 .
So you don't have a preschooler or a toddler, then I still suggest getting the iPad for your elementary , middle schooler , or high schooler. Because of all the learning apps from science to Algebra. And with the iBooks , nooks, and kindle apps , your child can download all their favorite books to read. And most of the classic books that are required reading for school Are free to download. Just like having a computer in the house was a key for our educational success growing up; so is giving your child an iPad. It's an investment in not only their future but their education as well. The iPad just isn't about fun and games and watching movies and listening to music but a true learning tool, that is interactive. I just love the look on my luvbugs face when he squeals with delight, when he turns on his iPad and goes to his learning games.
Now it seems that if you want your child to excel in school then it is imperative that you purchase an iPad. I would even go as far as saying purchase one for your toddler/ preschooler or kindergarten . I know what you are thinking, why would I buy such an expensive machine to hand over? Well first of all, you can buy a heavy duty case to protect your investment and sure $499 for your basic 16gb iPad does seem like a lot of money but it is actually cheaper to buy an iPad versus, Leappad , Vtech learning systems, etc.
When you look at it like this: you spend about $99 for a leapfrog Leappad . Then you have to spend like at least $15 for additional cartridges of games and books. Same with the tag reader system and the same with the Vtech systems as well. Now the pros for these systems are that they are toddler / preschool friendly meaning they can handle being drop and bump around. But the cons is that your child can easily out grow them. With the iPad, it's simple , purchase the smallest one on the market and for $499 that will be the iPad 16GB. Or you may find one even cheaper buying used. Once you have your iPad, I suggest putting a tough case on it to protect it from being dropped . I have two cases actually. The fisher price appitivity case , which hides the home button so my love bug can't exit out of apps. And it comes with a shield over the screen to protect from wetness. And an otterbox case.
Okay , the apple store has tons of educational apps, most of which are free. Then the ones you have to pay for run anywhere from $.99 -6.99 (the App store Runs sales All the time And alot of apps let you try before you buy) And the iPad grows with your kids. One of my favorite apps are the ocean house media ones. Their interactive books run anywhere from $1.99-699. (they do have two bundles to where you can get like 5 books for $11.99) And the Dr Suess books always goes on sale 50% off during his birthday for one or two weeks; sorry can't remember which. But anyway , these books teach your kids to read the same way as the leapfrog tag system only you didn't pay $15 for one book. Another reason why I love these books is because they have several wonderful functions. There is an auto play for my luvbug to listen to his favorite story. I can read him the story and turn the pages myself just like a real book, and the best part that makes it just like the tag system is that you can touch each word and it tells you what the word is. Not to mention if my luvbug touches anywhere on the screen , it automatically tells him what the picture is. Now the iPad can do more then just teach your preschooler or toddler how to read but with an iPad you won't have to purchase the your baby can read system because the apple store is full of flash cards that are animated and most of them are free while the rest are just $.99 .
So you don't have a preschooler or a toddler, then I still suggest getting the iPad for your elementary , middle schooler , or high schooler. Because of all the learning apps from science to Algebra. And with the iBooks , nooks, and kindle apps , your child can download all their favorite books to read. And most of the classic books that are required reading for school Are free to download. Just like having a computer in the house was a key for our educational success growing up; so is giving your child an iPad. It's an investment in not only their future but their education as well. The iPad just isn't about fun and games and watching movies and listening to music but a true learning tool, that is interactive. I just love the look on my luvbugs face when he squeals with delight, when he turns on his iPad and goes to his learning games.
Sunday, August 5, 2012
A response to the ridiculous Statements on Facebook made by : WandaHenderson Harris concerning Gabrielle Douglas Hair and how her mothershould be a shame for her daughter to be on national tv with unkepthair.
I've been seeing the debate happen on twitter then it came across my facebook news feed when a closed minded superficial person decided to bash Gabby Douglas. ( I have obtain photos of these statements for you to view) I was very please with all the people and their comments that came in Gabby's defense when Wanda posted up her ridiculous statements. Now what makes me madder than mad is that when another black mother criticizes a teen about her hair then bashes her mother, when will we black people come together as a whole and stop it with this crabs in the barrel type mentality ?! Now let's take a look at some of the statements that Wanda made that I will be addressing:
Wanda Henderson Harris Stupid and superficial statements:
1) Her hair looks pretty ruff, folks can be pretty unforgiving about it, myself included. It coulda been fix better before she went on international tv.
2) there are much better ways it could have been fix much better, can't give her mother a pass on that
3) I know how expensive gymnastics coaching is, I am just wondering if she knew she was going why didn't she get braids are something . Ppl may say its not important but it is, you can see all that gel IV that new growth, not good. Looks like she needs a relaxer really bad.
4) girl its just true, no way my child would go to any competition, without her hair looking nice. Her mom found the money for the lessons, she coulda paid for a hairdo. One she could just tie and keep neat during the competition.
5) I don't think it was neat at all, it was a distraction, it was painfully noticeable, had her hair been really neat no one would be talking. I was like oh man , why didn't she get her hair fix before she left.
6) going to the Olympics shoulda been a time to be focused for but also to look nice. I don't excuse it, she had plenty of time to prepare. It's not shallow, preparation time is never lost time
7) her hair is a representation of her trying to fit in with white culture . And that's what brought her to jack up hair.
Now Wanda you are a disgrace as a black mother. Their was nothing wrong with Gabby's hair. I didn't pay any attention to it because I was so busy focusing on her skills as a gymnast and I am sure the judges were as well. As a female gymnast , your child's hair needs to be pulled back and clipped away from the face so it will not interfere with the flips, jumps, tumbles, turns and what have you, you claim that Gabby's hair look pretty ruff and that she needs a relaxer very badly. Well according to your photos on Facebook you are well passed your turn for a relaxer and your hair is standing all over the place and Gabby's hair look a lot nicer then yours. Next you claim that your child will not go to any competition without their hair looking nice, and how I'd her mom found money for lessons she coulda paid for a hairdo. Can you please enlighten us on. How many gold medals your child have? What about a 90 million dollar endorsement deal with Kellogg's ? Does your child have one of those. See I am guessing that you are very shallow and raising your daughters to be the same way. That's why they will probably never achieve what Gabrielle Douglas have. You see, Gabby mom did the right thing. Her daughter was busy training for the gold while I am sure your daughters were somewhere being like Amber Cole and unless they make what she did into an Olympic event they will never see a gold medal . (for those of you unfamiliar with who Amber Cole is google her). You also claim that her hair wasn't neat but a distraction and painfully noticeable, ok I see from your profile that you sell Mary Kay, what if I told you that your hair was a distraction and it hindered me from wanting to buy makeup or beauty products from you because I am trying to figure out how you could ever put a come through that nappy mess? The most stupidest closed minded statement you could have ever made was the one about how going to the Olympics is a time to look nice and how she had plenty of time to prepare. Let me ask you this , how many olympics have you been in ? What about your kids? I thought going to the Olympics was a time to increase your training and focus on winning because you will be competing against some of the worlds best / top athletes. Then lastly you claim that her hair looks jacked up because she is trying to fit into white culture. Wanda as a mother I am shock that another mother would stoop so low and downgrade another child and her mother, have you heard the old saying sweep around your on front door , or the manner that you judge someone they will judge you twice as hard? I for one want to know who are you to talk? I have yet to see a photo of your hair looking all fabulous or your daughters hair looking fabulous. Have y'all even made it into the history books. This is what is wrong with our race, we have close minded, superficial black folks like you who are installing these same shallow values in your own daughters. You as a black woman , then as a black mother should have been extremely proud of this young lady accomplishments. But just like crabs in a barrel you try and belittle her and pull her down because of your own insecurities. How would you feel if everyone started tweeting about a Mary Kay representative who needs a relaxer before she tried to sell beauty products to ladies. Because her hair is ruff and nappy and unkempt and it's no reason or excuse for someone who sells Beauty products to have jack up hair like that? Or if you found money to sell Mary Kay by buying the start up kit then you coulda found money for a perm? In all honesty I think you are just jealous that this young lady made history by doing something that you nor your own daughters could do, do in order to feel better you decides to bash hair.
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
My Future Gold Medal Olympic Winner
After watching the Fab 5 win the gold medal in the 2012 summer Olympic games for women gymnastic, makes me think as a mother I need to put my love bug in gymnastic classes now. Just the thought of how these young ladies were babies themselves with the exception of one of them because she wasn't born yet, the last time the USA won a gold medal as a team in women gymnastic. My love bug already at almost 20 months, jumps, flips, tumbles, climbs and does splits. I think it's time to began his Olympic training, I am pretty sure his competition for the 2028 summer Olympic games has already begun training. Now I must admit that I cried like a baby during the one commercial that showed the mothers of these athletes . This commercial showed young kids doing the sporting events and the mothers cheering them on. Then at the end it read, To the moms they will always be little kids. That was the best commercial so far that I have seen.
Team Superman Sam
Team Superman Sam
I love photography. It has always been a hobby of mines since I was younger. A member of one of my photography groups has a small son name Sam who is battling cancer, Sam is a huge superman fan, so we have set up a Facebook page
http://www.facebook.com/groups/465884563424836/
Please take some time out to join this group and send some heartfelt wishes to help cheer his little spirit on, and if you have any photos of yourself in superman gear, whether its the costume or shirt, etc or if you can do some cool superman design or a nice superman photo, please posts it on the page. These are just really small favors that we are asking that will mean a lot to this little boy as we cheer him on doing his treatments and hospital stays. So please join me by becoming a member of Team superman Sam, and let's cheer this little boy on with well wishes .
Sunday, July 22, 2012
9 year old abuses babies / toddlers at a MS daycare
This particular news article outrages me. This comes from a news story from Vicksburg, Ms and I must warn you, if you click on the link and read the news story then look at the video which is very graphic , you too will be just as out rage as I am, let me also add that you cannot see the video on mobile devices, so get to your laptop or computer to see this. I will post the link at the bottom of this blog.
Ok so apparently this daycare center was first brought to the media attention when a father walked In and slap a 6 year old child for hitting his kid, I know right? I was angry at this grown man for hitting another kid. But according to the first news story, he walked in and wanted to know why his daughter came home with bruises and two busted lips. And the teacher couldn't give a reason or an explanation as to why. So another kid (9 years old) pointed to the six year old as the one who did it and the dad slap that child across the head and was then arrested for assault , so here we think the story ends with an outraged father beating up another poor innocent child. Well that is not what happened. The very next day the news reported (this is the story to the article that is posted) that a daycare worker is now arrested and a shocking video has been release. Here we see the surveillance video of the daycare to where there are toddlers and babies presence and a 9yr who is brutally attacking these poor babies when the teacher isn't looking. He can be seen, dragging one child and pulling her. Then the same child is shown standing and he jump kicks her in the back and she falls forcefully hard on the ground. Another smaller child is shown in a walker to which this same 9yr is shown slamming her head into the tray, choking her, and punching her in the face. He keeps his eye on the teacher and when she isn't looking he attacks these poor babies. Then his aunt gets on tv to speak for the family. She says that this seed of Satan is on medication and he fight , he bad, but he don't fight babies. She kept making up excuses as to why he was doing what he did and how it wasn't a big deal. The entire time she is talking I am thinking , too bad the dad hit the wrong kid. And this little terror knew exactly what he was doing because he pointed to another kid blaming them and he only attacked these babies when the teacher wasn't looking,
Okay, this is where I become angry and I am talking about the kind if anger that involves adrenaline flowing, If my child was attending this daycare and came home with bruises and busted lips and you better tell me the who what when where and how this happen. I have a couple of questions / concerns that need to be answered. And they are as follows:
1) why is that 9yr seed of Satan in the room with toddlers and babies in the first place?
2) this is a daycare right? So why is a 9yr there?
3) did the teacher not hear these babies cry? Why didn't she come running when they started crying. What was she doing?
4) apparently you have surveillance in the daycare so we as parents can be assured that our children are safe while in your care. Well you in the HELL was suppose to be watching the tapes and how long has Satan in the form of that 9yr been allowed to attack and abuse these babies?
Personally I think that this daycare center should be closed and this 9yr terror needs to have a sit down in a jail cell. He could have killed those babies. These parents need to sue and seek criminal actions of not only the daycare workers but the 9yr seed of Satan. Also this type of behavior is a learned behavior, apparently this sort of thing must goes on in his home life , so social services need to be called in to do an investigation. This is why I am so glad that I stay home with children.
http://www.wlbt.com/story/19074886/daycare-worker-arrested-in-slapping-incident
Ok so apparently this daycare center was first brought to the media attention when a father walked In and slap a 6 year old child for hitting his kid, I know right? I was angry at this grown man for hitting another kid. But according to the first news story, he walked in and wanted to know why his daughter came home with bruises and two busted lips. And the teacher couldn't give a reason or an explanation as to why. So another kid (9 years old) pointed to the six year old as the one who did it and the dad slap that child across the head and was then arrested for assault , so here we think the story ends with an outraged father beating up another poor innocent child. Well that is not what happened. The very next day the news reported (this is the story to the article that is posted) that a daycare worker is now arrested and a shocking video has been release. Here we see the surveillance video of the daycare to where there are toddlers and babies presence and a 9yr who is brutally attacking these poor babies when the teacher isn't looking. He can be seen, dragging one child and pulling her. Then the same child is shown standing and he jump kicks her in the back and she falls forcefully hard on the ground. Another smaller child is shown in a walker to which this same 9yr is shown slamming her head into the tray, choking her, and punching her in the face. He keeps his eye on the teacher and when she isn't looking he attacks these poor babies. Then his aunt gets on tv to speak for the family. She says that this seed of Satan is on medication and he fight , he bad, but he don't fight babies. She kept making up excuses as to why he was doing what he did and how it wasn't a big deal. The entire time she is talking I am thinking , too bad the dad hit the wrong kid. And this little terror knew exactly what he was doing because he pointed to another kid blaming them and he only attacked these babies when the teacher wasn't looking,
Okay, this is where I become angry and I am talking about the kind if anger that involves adrenaline flowing, If my child was attending this daycare and came home with bruises and busted lips and you better tell me the who what when where and how this happen. I have a couple of questions / concerns that need to be answered. And they are as follows:
1) why is that 9yr seed of Satan in the room with toddlers and babies in the first place?
2) this is a daycare right? So why is a 9yr there?
3) did the teacher not hear these babies cry? Why didn't she come running when they started crying. What was she doing?
4) apparently you have surveillance in the daycare so we as parents can be assured that our children are safe while in your care. Well you in the HELL was suppose to be watching the tapes and how long has Satan in the form of that 9yr been allowed to attack and abuse these babies?
Personally I think that this daycare center should be closed and this 9yr terror needs to have a sit down in a jail cell. He could have killed those babies. These parents need to sue and seek criminal actions of not only the daycare workers but the 9yr seed of Satan. Also this type of behavior is a learned behavior, apparently this sort of thing must goes on in his home life , so social services need to be called in to do an investigation. This is why I am so glad that I stay home with children.
http://www.wlbt.com/story/19074886/daycare-worker-arrested-in-slapping-incident
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